Tomboys aren't like most girls. They're a lot easier to hang around with and a lot of the time just one of the guys. But they're also a lot more complicated when looking for signs that they might like you.
Steps
- Pay attention to how things have changed. A lot of the time a tomboy will be friends with you before she starts liking you. And it won't be a sudden change either. You have to be fairly observant, and this takes skill and practice.
- Does she touch you less or show less goofy emotions? Tomboys tend to get more uptight around guys they like because they want you to think of them as girls. And to them, touching is a guy thing, and so are goofy faces. But this isn't always the case.
- Does she emphasize the fact that she's "one of the guys"? More often a girl will try to convince you that she hasn't changed, making a noticeable change to everyone. She probably doesn't want you to turn her away or for things to get uncomfortable if you find out, so she denies it to herself and others. You can't stay friends if you know.
- Does she get mad a lot around you? Tomboys are a lot like guys in this aspect. If they do something that they think is unattractive, they may think this will hurt their chance with you, if there is any. But you could also be ticking them off.
- They probably don't know much about flirting. Boys have always been friends to them, so boyfriends are probably the most complicated thing to them, even more so than how to fix that crack in your gas tank. Probably even more than it is for you, gasp!
- Does she hit you for no reason? Like, not the normal, you called her a girl so she's gonna whack you in the arm kind of hit. Like, you're just there and she wants to. She's probably trying to turn you off to her.
- Does everyone else joke that you two would make a cute couple? Although it could also be you, guys and tomboys are a lot less secretive when it comes to it. It could also be just joking, but most of the time they have probably noticed something you haven't. Watch her reaction. If it's a regular annoyed "shut up", then it's probably not her. But if you see her blush her tense up, they could be right.
- She probably won't confide in a guy, so look to the female friends for hints. If she looks at you like she's observing your reactions, she probably is. Though you probably shouldn't test this.
- "Do you like (insert tomboy's name here)?" If her female friend asks you this, there's a ninety-percent chance that she's asking for her friend. Even if she tells you something like "she hasn't said anything to me, I just wanted to know" doesn't mean that's why they're really asking. Of course there's still that ten-percent that she's telling the truth.
- You have a gut feeling. Tomboys probably aren't all that sneaky about hiding their feelings. They could really be staring at you when you think they are.
- They offer to pay for the meals. She use to always use tricks to get you to pay and now she's "repaying you" or "just being nice". She could be trying to get on your good side.
- She goes out of her way to make sure she's not alone with you. You use to hang out just you two all the time, playing video games, watching tv, playing one-on-one sports. But now she's either busy or invites another friend, even though she's an introvert. You haven't had your best friend time in months. Having another person with you guys is relaxing, she doesn't have to try so hard, she has help.
- Follow some http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You - girl tips. Tomboys are tomBOYs for a reason. Cold shoulder, copy-cat, harsh teasing, bumping into you. Stuff that you would do to a girl.
- When you flirt with other girls, does she look put off or angry? Both are signs of jealousy. She has probably already decided that she has no personal claim to you, but she can still get jealous against her will. If she avoids eye contact or looks sad, that's probably a positive sign. But you may have to look at her eyes. A slight droop in the eye lids or thinned lips mean a lot. But do NOT flirt just to make her jealous, because it could lead to problems in the friendship.
Tips
- Follow girl tips.
- Look at ways to http://www.wikihow.com/Attract-a-Tomboy - make a tomboy like you and follow a few of the rules. See how she responds.
- Keep in mind that all girls are different.
- They will probably lie to you if you ask them about it. See if they blush.
- Eye contact.
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